Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Synopsis

A fresh look at modern sexuality that explains why good sex is so hard to come by, and teaches the ins and outs in plain English with an aim to entertain as well as educate.

Episodes

  • 080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

    080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

    21/11/2016 Duration: 01h07min

    On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

    079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

    23/10/2016 Duration: 41min

    A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 078 Orgasms On Command

    078 Orgasms On Command

    06/10/2016 Duration: 52min

    A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

  • 077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

    077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

    06/10/2016 Duration: 32min

    Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation

    076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation

    08/08/2016 Duration: 34min

    For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015

    075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015

    24/11/2015 Duration: 44min

    This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year's full-resort takeover. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance Anxiety

    074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance Anxiety

    01/09/2015 Duration: 01h07min

    Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery. We'd like to welcome Audible as a new sponsor! CLICK HERE to get a free audio book and a 30 day free trial! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Audible Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger  The Prof

    073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger & The Prof

    06/06/2015 Duration: 01h20min

    Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016.  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: Come Do Desire With Us in November 2015! Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The

  • 072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Whove Become Educators  Advocates

    072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Who've Become Educators & Advocates

    16/05/2015 Duration: 01h17min

    A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery. Interview Guests: Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast Megan Allen is a sex educator friendly to all types of adult sexuality and owner of the Facebook sex education page The Downstairs. She also works at Forbidden Fruit Toys in Austin, TX and is a survivor of sexual abuse and also a victim's advocate.   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer.

  • 071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for Men

    071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for Men

    02/04/2015 Duration: 01h07min

    This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners

  • 070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink

    070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink

    12/02/2015 Duration: 43min

    A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time! They also have a first time buyer bonus that lets you choose from a few really slick toys for only 99 cents. Click on the pics below to check out the stuff we ordered and talk about on the episode!   Our New Toys Bamboo Beater   Horse Hair Flogger   Wartenburg Wheel (Sensory Pinwheel)   PVC Bondage Tape   Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT pro

  • 069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystCon

    069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystCon

    15/01/2015 Duration: 36min

    Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter Enter code "DARKAGE" at registration for 10 bucks off! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: CatalystCon Website Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, My Life On The Swingset

    068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, "My Life On The Swingset"

    06/01/2015 Duration: 05min

    Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March. Click Below To Buy On Amazon  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: Life On The Swingset  Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website:

  • 067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms  Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge

    067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms & Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge

    21/12/2014 Duration: 43min

    This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show. See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: 9th Circuit Court Rules LA Condom Mandate Doesn't Violate First Amendment Semen Is Good For Women's Health & Helps Fight Depression Going Off The Pill Could Affect Who You're Attracted To, Study Finds  The Science

  • 066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky Cowboy

    066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky Cowboy

    09/12/2014 Duration: 35min

    Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The Swingset

    065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The Swingset

    26/11/2014 Duration: 01h08min

    This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion (giggity). Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actua

  • 064 Dealing With An Asexual Relationship

    064 Dealing With An Asexual Relationship

    23/11/2014 Duration: 27min

    A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually. This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 063 Back From Desire

    063 Back From Desire

    21/11/2014 Duration: 47min

    Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Also, please remember that this is a demographic tool provided by a vanilla establishment, and as such is not particularly flush with the range of options that our listeners would expect from a survey we actually created. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

  • 062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In Cancun

    062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In Cancun

    29/06/2014 Duration: 37min

    A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are confirmed for Swingset Takes Desire this November. WOOHOO! Looking forward to a week of fun in the sun and sexy new friends! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey 

  • 061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More!

    061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More!

    11/06/2014 Duration: 01h11min

    We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds. This episode is available as both episode 61 of our show and episode 161 of Life On The Swingset. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Life On The Swingset Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

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