Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Listener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexually confident, indpendent women and a young lady who's not getting nearly enough cock after her wedding. Lady of the Drake, an erotic fantasy novel from the same filthy mind that brings you this podcast, is now available wherever e-books are sold for $6.99 retail. Don't forget to step up for a 1 in 10 chance to win a limited edition signed/numbered print copy by posting a review of the book wherever you bought it, for podcast listeners only. CLICK HERE for the post on the contest. Buy direct from Ravenous Romance (All e-book formats) for $4.99 Buy on Amazon for Kindle, $3.99 All the short stories featured in previous Audio Erotica episodes are now available for free download in all e-book formats from JV's page at Smashwords.com, and they're also available in .epub only from JV's profile at GoodReads.com Sponsore

Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy spanking and nipple pinching as an introduction to pain play, and the basics of aftercare for dominants and submissives. Be sure to check out Shara's t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex. Show Links: Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Topics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questions from two listeners on bi-curiosity and bisexuality. One is a girl attracted to other girls but unable to get off on lesbian porn, and the other is a guy who likes certain specific play with other guys but isn't sure if the label "bisexual" fits.  We also come up with a fun t-shirt contest for our homework assignment on bitching about the opposite sex. Show Links: Vaginism on Wikipedia Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

Listener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show). Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :) Show Links: Show website: SexualDarkAge.com The post that inspired Questioner's comment: Christian Blogger Claims 70% of Women Don't Deserve Orgasms. Article from TheMarriageBed.com: What's OK/What's Not (according to the Bible) Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance. Read this story at TwistedErotica.com Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise.

Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes with menstrual sex, BDSM mentoring and helping a submissive you're not sexually involved with find a dom, and some advice for a young woman who can't figure out how to enjoy masturbation. Show Links: Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon) Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Sex (At Amazon) The Expert Guide To Advanced Anal Sex (DVD) (At Tristan's Website) Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms and finger cots for anal sex and ass play, the importance of relaxation to good ass fucking experiences, the morning after, and a bunch of other fun stuff related to butt fucking in general...including a list of surprising items removed from people's asses in hospitals. Show Links: Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon) Sponsored By:  AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

This quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset.  The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy who's concerned about coming out to the swing community as a bisexual.  Many thanks to Cooper, Ginger, Dylan and Shira for lending a hand on this one. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com Our Friends:  LifeOnTheSwingset.com

This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male stamina issues. Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By:  AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get half off just about any item, free shipping, free porn and a free sexy surprise.

We're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration. Yeah, it's a super-sized episode. We also do a fun little experiment in interactive podcasting, with Cooper and Ginger deciding what Shara gets spanked with on the air.  DING. Show links: Show website:  SexualDarkAge.com Life on the Swingset

Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the good and bad aspects of safewords in BDSM play, and some general questions regarding dominant/submissive relationships. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical nonmonogamy.  In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics we wanted to discuss, so we'll be reconvening our foursome to finish the interview in a couple weeks for Swinging Part 2.Some of the issues we cover in this episode include: How to safely and comfortably dip a toe into swinging when you've got no idea if it's right for you, jealousy and how to make it a non-issue, avoiding common newbie mistakes, swinger parties for beginners, how to go about finding your first swinging playmates online or in real life, and the straight story on how swingers view body types in relation to choosing playmates. Show Links: Life on the Swingset The Swingset on iTunes New Ending The Sexual Dark Age group on Fetlife Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com

Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon): Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism The Loving Dominant

Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without pushing too hard.  This episode begins an arc of topics on group play, swinging, polyamory and other flavors of non-monogamy. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com

An in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight story on the Pentagon's new policy and what it means to the people who will actually be dealing with it.   Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on his fiance's desire to get double teamed. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly.    Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com

A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky side of a "nice girl." Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com

Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com