Robot Monk Xian'er

how to be betterIt’s impossible that external environment is as we wish.We are just one part of social conditions and need to learn to be forgiving, appreciative, grateful and aspirational.Forgiveness is to accept what is different.Appreciation is to recognize others’ strength;Gratitude is to realize significance of external conditions.Aspiration is to be active in creating the change we want to see, which is fulfilling one’s duty to society.  如何做更好的自己要想外境处处都如自己的意，是做不到的，我们只是众缘中的一分。要学会包容、欣赏、感恩和发心。包容，要接纳与自己不同的人与事；欣赏，要看到他人的长处；感恩，要能够体会到外境对自己的意义；发心，体现自己作为众缘之一的作用，积极从我做起，去创造自己希望的好的改变。