The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sex education expert Kate McCombs is on the podcast this week. I am so excited to share her with you all! I admit to her that being a sex educator is my not-so-secret dream day job. Kate and I talk about being sex geeks, where we learned the birds and the bees, and common tropes in sexual misinformation. It's seriously one of my new favorite Manwhore Podcasts! Kate McCombs is a master of sex! No, seriously. She has a Master's degree. She describes how she got started teaching sex ed on the jungle gym when she was 10! If you've ever wanted to be a sex educator, you should listen up about how she went from a peer educator in college to running her own sexual communication workshops around the country. Plus, are you a sex geek? Then you should be a part of the Sex Geekdom! Same-sex marriage is finally legal nationwide! Friday was a historic day for our nation and LGBT rights. The landmark Supreme Court ruling in the case of Obergefell vs. H

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian and former sex worker Kaytlin Bailey is this week's special guest on The Manwhore Podcast! Kaytlin was a teenaged escort and is now a hilarious stand-up comic and self-proclaimed c*nt. This episode features two comedians talking about sex work and gender in the funniest way possible! Kaytlin Bailey made enough money doing sex work that at 17 she opened a Roth IRA! Her and I share the same fetish of being paid for sex. She has just gotten to live her fantasy way more times than I have. We discuss how a whore fantasy turned into a job. Plus, am I allowed to "appropriate" the word whore by calling myself a manwhore? (duh, of course) Hear Kaytlin's reasons for faking orgasms on this week's episode. Of course, faking orgasms would not be necessary if we lived in a society where a man's masculinity wasn't so caught up in him "giving" a woman an orgasm. We've become so goal-oriented that we forgot that sex is about feeling good during your

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We're talking BDSM impact play and polyamory on this week's Manwhore Podcast with Anastasia. My kinky friend Anastasia is a Twitter hook-up that turned into a friendship where we share the finer parts of our sexual exploits. It's a kinky, sexy, loving poly episode! The hardest part about polyamory isn't jealousy or hurt feelings. It's scheduling! Anastasia and I discuss #polyproblems. I attempt to diagram her poly family of relationships. It's not very easy. We also learn about her polyamorous origins with her current long-distance primary partner. We're learning all about impact play and BDSM this week. Anastasia talks about whipping, flogging, hitting, caning and being tied down. "Your kink is not my kink—and it's okay." Just remember that consent is key! How do you find your sex toys? Listen to my guest's story about buying her first pair of handcuffs at a Ren Faire! Support The Manwhore Podcast and get awesome rewards! Make a pledge on

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida No matter how hard we tried, Andrea Allan and I could not seem to have sex with each other. This week's episode is with my friend and fellow comedian Andrea Allan, an "off-putting babe" who likes rough sex and funny men. Hear the story of two people wanting to bang each other who just…couldn't. Comedian Andrea Allan has dated—f*cked— a lot of stand-up comedians. We discuss the common question amongst the comedy community: should comics date other comics? Even if you do, could you f*ck a bad comic? Comedian sex has the same major rule as stand-up comedy: Always Be Funny. Andrea likes rough sex that sounds like a homicide. Hear about the time her roommate had to decide to either c*ckblock Andrea or potentially let her be murdered. The fellow podcaster is so intense in bed—not bad, just intense—that she scared my d*ck into submission. How should a woman react to a guy's sexual dysfunction? Listen to a hilarious story about a prank I pulled inv

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Burlesque veteran Peekaboo Pointe joins me on this week's Manwhore Podcast to talk about dancing, dating and getting naked. Peekaboo has a storied past as rich as the history of burlesque itself! I enjoyed talking to the "Lazy Stripper" about this fun, sexy art form and getting to know what it's like being, well, Peekaboo! Peekaboo Pointe is "The Fastest Tassle Twirler from East to West"! With well over ten years of experience under her belt, Peek has been around since the early days of New York City's burlesque revival. She tells me about how she transitioned from modern dance to stripping down to pasties. "Can't we all just get naked and make some art?!" Thank you so much to everyone who emailed, tweeted and shouted their kind words after hearing last week's break-up pre-intro. It means so much to me to have such amazing strangers who care about me. From the bottom of my heart, I love you all. Except Jim. Peekaboo schooled me on the histo

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian Mike Cannon makes a special appearance on The Manwhore Podcast this week. Holy sh*t! What didn't we talk about?! Love. Dating. Craigslist. Hairy assh*les. Mike and I covered it all! We start this week's episode off on a super sad note. I had a rough weekend and I explain why. Don't worry: the show gets better when I start talking about rimjobs. Congratulations to Ireland for proving that even Catholics can be loving human beings! The Republic of Ireland voted to legalize same-sex marriages in their country by public referendum. How did the f*cking Catholics beat us to marriage equality?! It's probably responsible to check-in about your sexuality once in awhile and make sure you're not missing out on something that you want. Right? No? We enter that heteroman world of, "Well if you were gay…" I also blow his mind when I tell him about my naked podcast episodes. We discuss his decades-long relationship and how they manage the very d

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Crystal was my annual NYU tradition. We met Welcome Week during our freshman year at New York University and made it a point to hook-up each year. Lots of not-sex with Crystal back then. Now she's in an adorable long-term long distance relationship. I'm still sad and alone. NYU was a casual sex fest for me. Crystal shared a similar amount of adventures, including a pair of hot threesomes! Despite our busy dance cards, we somehow made time for getting naked with each other once a year. But we have no idea how it started! How do you think we hooked up? Email your guesses to manwhorepod@gmail.com! Manscaping: it's finally come up! One hairy listener wants to know how he can trim up his pubes to his wife's liking. They're both about to enter the swinger scene so he wants a pube 'do that pleases a wide audience. Crystal has been dating her first love for five years. They have recently begun a hopeful long distance relationship. After years toget

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The third and final (?) naked podcast is upon us! Mary completes my first series of naked podcast episodes talking about casual sex, being vanilla and losing her virginity. The dad bod craze makes an appearance in this week's show and one listener wants to know how to be a responsible unicorn. What happens when two Tinder right swipes get naked and talk about sex? Well…sexy things! Mary challenged herself to step outside of her comfort zone and got naked with a total stranger. We discussed how natural the nudity eventually felt. It was pretty cool. The dynamic was different than my previous nude episodes because since she came from Tinder, we both inherently knew we were attracted to each other. Listen to the sexual tension build. The dad bod is in. Hear me discuss my joys and concerns over the latest male body type craze. The dad bod is a guy who isn't entirely in shape but isn't an unhealthy fat guy. It's sort of inbetween. Think Leona

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The Naked Manwhore Podcast takes one gay man and one straight man and strips them of their clothes to get an amazing episode about sex and dating. Whether gay, straight or queer, we can all relate to the topics of lusting for sex, falling in love and navigating the frustrating world of dating. Two nude dudes cover Truvada, Craigslist and romance! Want to check out the books Stephanie got me? What Do Women Want? by Daniel Bergner A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam The Invention of News by Andrew Pettegree On the second installment of my naked podcast series, James and I discuss the finer points of Craigslist and dick size. As James tells us, "I never met a dick I couldn't take." You could be that dick for him, if you're on Scruff! PrEP and Truvada have revolutioninzed safe sex in gay culture. A community of men ravaged by the AIDS epidemic and scared straight into using condoms now have a new tool to protect themselves again

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Naked podcast number one begins with Daniela! A kinky naked lady strips down and bares all with nudity of the body and mind. We're talking about online dating woes, sexual exploration and anal fisting on a sexy new episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This is the first in a short series of nudist podcasts. I believe that we are at our most vulnerable when naked in front of a new person.Combine that with opening up to a total stranger and I think it makes for a very interesting dynamic! So I recruited on Reddit and Tinder to find a few fun and brave souls to strip down with me and chat. Not as weird as we expected, but I still totally got a boner. Daniela has had a rough time with online dating since moving to New York. She shares her bad luck with dating and Tinder horror stories. Plus, she tells me about her newfound relationship with casual sex. I got to see more than Daniela's boobs. I got to see some bruises, the product of some rough sex o

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida How soon is too soon to send a d*ck pic? Lauren hops on the mic for a Tinder School Reunion to talk about showing your penis and the pitfalls of dating. Get that V wet! Two years after their Tinder one-off, Lauren pops by Bushwick to chat with me about her dating style. Recently she's moved off of Tinder and hunts down men at the bar, or "in the wild" as she calls it. Where do people meet in real life these days? I still fantasize about meeting a woman at a bookstore where we reach for the same copy of Gotham and lock eyes as we both think to ourselves, "Wow this book is really f*cking heavy." Lauren remembers Billy being very sweaty. I reveal that I just have a nervous dating tick that makes it seem like I was doing cocaine in the bathroom. Hear about my nervous itch on this week's episode of the podcast! Is Tinder for hooking up? Is it for dating? Lauren and I discuss Tinder's ambiguity problem. It's important for a dating website or a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kailey Marshall is back to talk about why we stopped f*cking this time. What? Yea…that happened again. Kailey: She still loves a big d*ck but no longer f*cks bassists. It's an amazing episode for celebrating The Manwhore Podcast's one-year anniversary! Remember Kaylee the Size Queen from Episode 5? She's back as the musically talented Kailey Marshall! Kailey and I attended our first sex party together and had very different experiences. I was exhausted just happy to be there. Kailey made love to a sexy stranger who's c*ck rocked her world—so much so that she broke things off with me two days later. The break up caused strife for many months before we drunk bootycalled and made up…then stopped texting all over again. Women are f*cking complicated. The orgy seemed to open Kailey's eyes to a whole wide sexy world that she never knew existed. The singer-songwriter details her recent depths into polyamory and nonmonogamy. She's now dating a poly

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Luke Jackson dishes on the ins and outs of being a straight male escort. These two manwhores discuss international travel, sex with older women and dating in New York City. The Manwhore Podcast meets a professional manwhore. Luke Jackson is a high-end escort for women (and cuckhold couples) seeking an intelligent, attractive and cultured male companion. Luke tells me about how he got started in sex work and answers the question many of you ladies are thinking: how much? I share my run-ins with prostitution. Sadly, my potential clients were not of the female variety. Listen to this very special episode to find out if I really went gay-for-pay! The Indiana religious freedom protection law is pretty sh*tty. Even though crappy parts are being amended, you can still legally discriminate against homosexuals in Indiana, as well as most of the country. I also give advice to one listener who got exactly what she wanted---and doesn't know what to do.

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Emily dumped me via hand-written letter six years ago. Like an almost-psycho, Billy tracks her down in Chicago to seek closure. What soon transpires, of course, is a poop joke. Great conversation about relationships, dating and growing up on this week's Manwhore Podcast! Long-distance relationships are hard. Keeping up a romance in college with distance between you is a recipe for disaster. In this case, it culminated with an unexpected delivery from my mailman and a tearful viewing of 500 Days of Summer. Hear about this and about how f*cking adorable I was at 19. One listener wants to know if she should offer her college boyfriend one of the best things a straight guy could ask for. What is it, you ask? Oh. You'll have to listen to this episode to find out! Let's just call it the hetero man's Double Rainbow. Emily and I discuss life's emotional roller coaster. Emily prefers some stability, not letting the needle tick too far in one directi

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kay gets Billy super stoned as they recall their apathetic blowjob years ago. Sugar babies, sex toys and lots of bathroom breaks on a sexy, silly episode of The Manwhore Podcast! Kay talks about her time as a sugar baby, dating sophisticated wealthy men for a monthly cash allowance. She used sugar baby websites like Seeking Arrangement to link up with men who would pay to date her. I almost sugar babied for a man once but then I got all Pretty Woman on him and said the nay-no. Kay and I thought it would be a hilarious idea to eat some weed chocolate before turning on the microphones. We did and I'm still not sure whether or not that was a good idea. I'm not much of a weed guy but these edibles surely caused all sorts of whacky chatter and maniacal laughter. Listen to us slowly spiral out of our senses in what might be my silliest episode yet! Sex toys keep popping up on this week's show. After talking to Kay, I almost want my own Rebe

Former Wall Street intern Paige Jennings joins The Manwhore Podcast to share her story about becoming the new hot porn starlet Veronica Vain! This business-minded peformer dishes on her entry to the porn industry and her sex life off-camera. Billy tries not to hit on her. Veronica Vain admits that her sex life on-screen vs. off-screen isn't that much different. She still enjoys double penetration, sex parties and playing with women. She talks about a surprise gangbang her loving boyfriend threw for her and I talk about my recent group sex experience. This porn star already knows she's not just a performer. She has big dreams of becoming a monster player in the porn industry. Veronice shares some of her thoughts about Mindgeek and how porn can adapt to the marketplace. I respond to one listener's email regarding the recent transgender bathroom policies sweeping the nation. Check out the Gingerbread Person diagram here! What's your most embarassing sex story? I bet it didn't involve being on a porn

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Rachael and Billy recall their tipsy bar hook-up in college trying to be cool. Plus our newer adventures into casual sex and adult dating. No matter how much we're told, we have to learn the hard way to not care what other people think about us. There is no such thing as "being cool." Just do you, boo boo! Hear about how I pulled a punk move that came back to bite me, all in the name of "trying to be cool." Rachael slept with a sailor…and most of the branches of our armed services. Support the troops! Plus, New Rachael is navigating the waters of casual dating. "I'm not looking for a relationship right now," really means, "I don't want to have a relationship with you." I give some advice to a woman who always finds herself as the "Inbetween Girl." Go, Michigan! A Planet Fitness in Midland, Michigan booted the right person: a bigot who invaded the privacy of a transgendered member. What did Planet Fitness do? Cancel the nosy woman's

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Cindy Gallop lets Billy into the Black Apartment to talk about Make Love Not Porn! Cindy Gallop started the gamechanging website MakeLoveNotPorn.tv. She likes to "blow sh*t up," which includes the porn industry. Gallop is pro-sex, pro-porn, and pro-knowing the difference. Until comprehensive sex education exists in this country, porn will have to pick up the slack!  One listener wrote in asking how to get her confidence back with her new c-section scar. I help Katie with her body image dilemma so this total MILF can get back to having fun hot sex while the twins are asleep. We all have imperfections. Hers comes with the glorious excuse of bringing life into this world. My love handles exist because I can't resist Entemann's. Gallop would qualify as a cougar, as she dates many sprite younger men. She dishes on why she prefers to date young men and how they inspired her to give a jaw-dropping TED Talk. Plus, we discuss the new UK porn b

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Brandon Scott Wolf is a brilliant man. Like Billy, Brandon is also single and instead of starting a podcast he started his own online dating site: DateBrandonScottWolf.com. Listen in on how traditional online dating has failed him and how a gag somehow blew up into a viable way for him to find his next true love. Billy rants about the Oscars and diversity. Before you claim that white people kept winning trophies, remember that Best Picture, Best Director, Best Original Screenplay and Best Cinematography were all picked up by Mexicans. So try and relax a little bit. And no, American Sniper was not that good. Brandon Scott Wolf and Billy Procida are Eskimo brothers: they both love stand-up comedy. The two comedians talk about how they manage their schedules between comedy, sex, love and other things. Plus, we compare and contrast fingering and handjobs. Follow Brandon on Twitter! @BrandonEsWolf. Obviously you are, but in case you're not, the

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Gay rapper Big Dipper is this week's special guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Billy and Dipper sit down to talk about being gay in a genre of music with such rich homophobic history. Billy found this hairy gary bear in a Time Out list of queer rappers and became instantly enamored…with his music. Totally just the music. Not with the whole bear look thing. Mu-sic. Why doesn't anybody believe me?! Shameful legislation has been proposed in states like Florida and Kentucky that humiliate transgendered people. Bigots, I mean, conservatives--- no, I meant "bigots," have lost the battle at the wedding chapel and have now opened war on public bathrooms. Kentucky wants students making sure other students policing the private parts of other students…for the sake of the students' privacy(?). Big Dipper has big dreams. He knows he can take his lyrics about sucking c*ck to the mainstream. Check out the AWESOME music video to Billy's new favorite song, "Sk