The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida NYU friend Sarah joins Billy to get the low down on dirty talking vs. "nice talking". The two chat about the various online dating services Sarah won't be joining: Tinder, JDate, JSwipe. She's simply content on bar hook-ups. Billy goes on a rape rant. Oops. Idiot Standford student Chris Herries compares a woman's vagina to a bike in the latest public victim shaming comments. I doubt he knows how to ride a "bike" very well. Plus, Billy updates listeners on his love life. Do you always use condoms? How often do you slip up? Billy tries to understand what causes Sarah to be undisciplined when it comes to safe sex. Why not ensure your own safer sex with a free Manwhore Podcast condom?! Are you a squirter? Sarah wants to know. Just make sure you lay down a towel. This week's episode is sponsored by the NFL: where you can beat your wife so long as you're not high on marijuana when you do it. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kat is a Tantra practitioner, Burning Man participant and polyamorous lover. Basically, she's freaking fantastical. Kat and Billy chatted about how she came to accept the title of sex worker and how she came out to her parents about how she makes a living. Plus some crunchy hippy existential chatter about Mother Goddess and oneness. Cool stuff! I am Buddha Steakhouse! Hear me roar! Kat, codename Candy Lion, tells us about Burning Man and how she got her burner name. Mine? Buddha Steakhouse. How much body hair do you like on a woman? Can women with hairy armpits be sexy? Chime in! Kat feels sexiest with smooth legs, full pits and a little downstairs trim. The burner also shares her favorite uses for period blood. Wait, what?! Yea. Listen. Dig it. And check me out on Keith and The Girl This week's episode is sponsored by flip-flops. Flip-flops: At least we're not Crocs. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhoreP

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's theme song should be, "I (Kinda) Kissed A Boy (And I Liked It!)" Sasha is Billy's first gender queer guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Sometimes she's a girl. Sometime's he's a boy. Sometime's they are everything! The two discuss gender roles and labels as well as Sasha's journey of sexual and identity self-discovery. Billy might have tried to flirt with her. Oops. The sex party was fun. Next question, please. Sasha's father used to run a Russian mail order bride service. What?! Yes. We learn that "looking for a wife is like shopping for a car." Gross, but fascinating! Plus, Billy tires his hand at singing the popluar love ballad, "Lola." Jim Norton wrote a great op-ed piece for Time Magazine titled, "In Defense of Johns." Check it out! Get your very own Manwhore Podcast condom! Make sure you're subscribed to The Manwhore Podcast and then take a screenshot of yourself writing a review on iTunes (postiive or negative). Email the sc

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest is group sex guru Jefferson. Jefferson is a sex educator, sex blogger, storyteller and organizer of New York City's Bukkake Social Club (it's like bridge, but with more semen). We talk about blowjobs, threesomes & orgies. He also gives Billy some tips before he goes to his first sex party this weekend!  Jefferson discusses what type of women want to be on the receiving end of a bukkake and how he juggles the consent of each individual person at an event. All while trying to maintain his erection!  Check out this awesome IndieGogo campaign for the pd.ID. The personal drink identifier detects if your drink has been drugged. These Canadians are trying to raise $100,000 to make this invention a reality and you should really support it. A $75 donation will land you your own early version of the product.  Check out Jefferson's live storytelling show series, Bare, in New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and more at barest

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Michelle record directly after completing a RandomActOfMuffdive. What is that? Go check out /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive for yourself! The two chat about the finer points of cunnilingus and Michelle gives Billy a live review of his performance! Plus, our guest shares some suggestions to the fellas out there wondering how they can better please their lady friends while going downtown. Hey frat boys: no more fingerblasting. Stop it! And stop trying to go in girls' butts without asking first. This isn't a porno. Billy wrote a very personal piece on xoJane.com about his struggles his body dysmorphia and disordered eating. "Guys may self-deprecate. We may not like our bodies as is. But we don't do eating disorders." Check out the article. This week's episode is sponsored by physical therapy, for those times you throw your shoulder out trying that crazy new sex position. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com.

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elexa's boyfriend of 8 years refused to have sex with her. Listen to why she thinks he couldn't give a lady what she wanted. It might be why she's struggled to claim that elusive female orgasm. My good friend Elexa got real, telling me why our brief dating history was as brief as it was. "I remember wanting to punch you in the face." Hear why she decided we'd "just be friends." Billy gets an opportunity to give her advice as well. What's proper long distance texting etiquette…if you're not a couple yet? Ever buy a dildo but it just didn't feel right? Now you can make your own customized 3D-printed dildo. Check it out at www.dildo-generator.com. Billy gives the low-down on buying jeans with a man-booty and curvy hips. This week's show is brought to you by bed sheets. Bed sheets: Wash them when you feel like it or when you can't get away with it anymore. Email your comments and questions to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Lee admits that Billy would be a great boyfriend, just not her boyfriend. She presses Billy about his polyamorous proclivities. But emotions can be toxic. Billy's feelings towards Lee caused a great Friends With Benefits situation to end. He was a little crazy lovesick. This Aussie native doesn't apologize for breaking his heart but she does apologize for giving bad blowjobs. Lee has vaginismus. Learn about this frustrating condition that kept her from having sex for years! Plus, we hear about Blendr. Never heard of it? Yea, that sounds about right. If you want to date Billy, you need to watch Chasing Amy. You also need to be able to handle his various faults, which he and Lee go over in detail. Have you read The Ethical Slut yet? Press pause. Go get it. Live a better life. This week's episode is brought to you by Starbucks, because they let me edit the show inside while it was raining without buying anything. Email your questions and com

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy interviews "Sherry", a legal prostitute in Amsterdam's historic Red Light District. They talk about the pros and cons of sex work. Sherry tells us about dating as a hooker and how working girls need love, too! Plus, she dishes about a few kinky clients! Billy went to a nude beach with a couple of friends and it didn't get weird. Seeing your friend's boobs makes for a fun weekend. Do you think prostitution should be legalized in the United States? Why or why not? Have you ever had sex for money? Chime in. For more information on sex work in the Netherlands, visit Advocacy Group for sex workers in the Netherlands or Sex Work Information Centre websites. Email your questions or comments for the show to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elle is a fellow NYU Fighting Violet who loves public sex and dating the older crowd. But recently, she's found herself on OkCupid exploring her bi-curious side looking for a lady to hook up with. This hottie sits down on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love to trade sex stories and give young men pointers. Elle is in love with "Sergio" in Argentina. Buenos Aires steals yet another young American heart with a study abroad 'roadmance'. Billy recalls learning about Magnum condoms from Degrassi: The Next Generation from a CougarLife.com date. The Supreme Court ruled in favor of Hobby Lobby. Meanwhile, Americans still aren't quite sure what the store sells besides whackjob religious "beliefs". And thanks to the cranky men up on the hill, there's no better time to protest an abortion clinic than the present! That's legal now, too. How'd you lose your virginity? Elle's probably got ya beat! This week's episode of The Manwhore Podc

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Amanda get emotional and playful on this week's show. Amanda has been experimenting with casual sex, sleeping with men in hopes they will like her. She also continues to sleep with her ex-boyfriend (who Billy thinks is a total assh*le). If you still go out with your ex after breaking up, aren't you still "dating your ex"? Billy went to Coney Island's Mermaid Parade this past weekend. Slap the pasties on and let your freak flag fly! He saw quite a few pairs of boobies and phenomenally-costumed drag queens. Keep Brooklyn weird! Amanda expresses her love of playing with buttholes. Billy shows her something that blows her mind! Please don't drink and drive, sluts. Who would you marry from Orange Is The New Black? Boy Meets World? Amand and Billy debate. Plus a fun round of Cast That Porn! This week's episode is sponsored by air mattresses. An air mattress is a perfect chastity device for those who can't afford World of Warcraft. Em

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Special guest sex researcher Dr. Zhana Vrangalova sits with Billy to discuss hooking up and alternative sexuality. Ever one-time jerk off your roommate in a heat of passion in college, but you don't identify as bisexual? Yea, that's what Dr. Vrangalova calls "mostly heterosexuality". We talk about being "mostly straight" and sexual orientation labels. Dr. Vrangalova is the mastermind behind The Casual Sex Project. This community sex story archive lets you know it's okay to sometimes let your freak flag fly or to have some no strings attached fun by normalizing what is sometimes still socially condemned promiscuity. Plus, Billy accidentally slutshamed the whores who aren't poly. Oops. Billy opens up some more about his spontaneous trip to Amsterdam. Have you satisfied wild urge lately? Try it! This week's episode is brought to you by TD Bank: America's sexiest bank. Follow Dr. Vrangalova on Twitter @DrZhana and you can stay up to da

Emily becomes an unpaid advocate of hook-up dating app Tinder. She's fallen in love after plenty of swiping and now she tells us why she ditched OK Cupid for Tinder. Online dating presents all sorts of "rules" regarding female sexual aggression. It's confusing! The two also talk about the rules of casual sex for women. Catcallers: your validation! Emily feels "appreciated" by a good catcall on the street. What about you? Do you find it disgusting or strangely sweet? Oops! Billy went to Europe out of nowhere. Why? No idea. He broadcasts from Iceland because, the world. Plus, the Red Light District offers up a pleasant surprise! #internationalwhore Billy and Emily play a new game and agree that, for the good of society, Kim Kardashian needs to be killed! Duke porn star Belle Knox comes up yet again. This week's episode is sponsored by Orbitz. Orbitz will let you fly anywhere in the world that has legal prostitution. Orbitz: turns on your red light. Email your comments and questions to manwhorepod@

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Madeline Lewis is an actress in New York City who has lots of advice to give. For example: never call a woman a spinster! Oops. My bad. Madeline does not like online dating and likes to take things slow. Now she's in an obnoxiously adorable two-year relationship with a man she met at, wait for it: the Ren Faire! Hear how she's not afraid of being a woman on the prowl making the first move. Screw gender roles! Madeline and Billy talk about virginity and following one's own sexual journey, however kinky or vanilla it may be. Madeline doesn't need any crazy kinks to have fun sex! No accessories needed. Billy continues to push the phrase "vanilla shaming." It's real. Plus: Cast That Porn! Lifebuzz lists 10 Old-Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Bring Back. Which ones do you hope your next date does? New York City comedian Ray Gootz wrote an excellent article for Salon.com, "The 33-year-old virgin: Life without sex is only torturous if you let it

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kathy is classy and Irish Catholic. Billy is a slutty atheist. SITCOM! They both have a fun conversation about fickle dating standards, sexual histories and marriage. Kathy is a young ex-fiance and recalls the red flags leading to the end of her military engagement. The two ponder a world where Catholic priests are allowed to have casual sex. If you saw the Pope on Tinder, would you swipe right?  Slut shaming continues to plague our country after the Belle Knox incident and Alyssa Funke's recent suicide. Billy rants about the tragic state of sex education in schools. Alice Dreger's article asks, "What If We Admitted to Children That Sex Is Primarily About Pleasure?" NEW DRINKING GAME! Take a shot every time Kathy says "madonna/whore complex". For your health, I edited out a few of them. Plus another great round of CreepyPMs Theater. This week's episode is sponsored by prolactin. Prolactin: making you think twice before going for Round 2. Email

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Ladies would you take a man's virginity? Diana's iffy on it. Diana joins us on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love this week. She drops some truth bombs on Billy, smashing his fantasy of their past and reminding him of a time when he was kind of a d-bag. They met on www.DateMySchool.com a few years ago and reunite on this episode to talk about sex in public, oversharing and the importance of going down on a woman. They both share their "numbers" and play a fun round of Cast That Porn! Diana also shares a story about having sleeping with a man with one hand…and didn't realize it until afterwards! Plus, apparently zombie-faced Halloween sex can lead to a healthy relationship. Congratulations to Idaho, Oregon and Pennsylvania on recognzing marriage equality for same sex couples! This week's episode is sponsored by Godzilla. Godzilla: like an annoying drunk friend, he has the ability to ruin somebody's threesome. Check out Sounds L

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It was so much fun reuniting with Kaylee on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This is definitely the most quotable episode so far! Here are some of Kaylee's choice lines: "My brother is freaking hot!" "I love a big d--k." "I just don't want to put stuff in your butt."   And much more! The Nerve.com article is called 16 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys about Sex by Kate Hakala. The Rolling Stone article is called Tales From the Millenials' Sexual Revolution by Alex Morris. This week's episode is sponsored by popcorn. Popcorn: it almost makes you forget that you're home alone watching Netflix. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kimi has called off her engagement, so Billy educates her on the current online dating scene. Kimi's worried about her sexting skills and Billy recalls their cousin-kissing mutual acquaintance. Should incest be a "to each their own" issue? The two also ponder why finding a healthy relationship is so difficult.   Billy's high school reunion went well, even if he did use 94 Weight Watchers points. Fasting ensues!   This week's episode is sponsored by Ikea, because relationships are a lot of hard work and the instructions don't make sense.   Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com.   The sexting study mentioned is titled "Love the Way You Lie: Sexting deception in romantic relationships" by Drouin, Tobin and Wygant. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy sits down with a very horny Jess on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast. Here's someone whose sluttiness rivals even Billy's! Jess admits she's a bit demanding in bed when she's drunk (as her friend delivers us some wine). Billy schools us on fair market value for a happy ending massage. And the two of them debate Jess's No Condoms policy. "The tubes are now tied! Don't worry!"   Billy also stresses about buying a bed and an upcoming high school reunion.   This episode is sponsored by peanut butter in bed. When life's got you down, peanut butter will keep you in bed.   Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com   www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Jay get kinky on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast. This week's show talks about buttplugs, bronies, and BDSM. Pegasisters unite! Jay questions Billy's fluid sexuality which leads to an interesting story about a Craigslist casual encounter. Jay also rates Billy's 'Sub' skills. As the Lord & Savior Mika once said, "Big girls, you are beautiful!" How much do you value confidence over looks? Who's at fault: surface level jerks or dishonest default pictures? These things and more on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This episode is sponsored by Dominos. Dominos: it makes you go to the gym tomorrow. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy sits down with his first guest Nikki, a one-time Tinder hook-up, on the inaugural episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. The two talk about the new app that might help your oral sex skills (LickThis App). They also chat about the pitfalls of Tinder dating, polyamory, and even play a round of "Cast That Porn". Does every lady's special time really "smell like pennies"?  If you fool around with someone, are you obligated to have sex with that person? I mean, the guy has to have sex with them if offered, right? This gender hypocrisy and more arise on the first exciting episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This episode is sponsored by chocolate. Chocolate: it solves any break-up. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com. Say hi on Twitter @TheBillyProcida and use the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast. The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures is by Dossie Easton and