Sam Sylk Show

Dear Sam I met a man, who told me he was unhappy in his marriage and had tried leaving his wife before but didn’t because his daughters were too young. Now we both claim we have fallen in love, and he wants to get an apartment with me and eventually divorce his wife. All the meanwhile he’s still living with his wife. He says they’re just roommates and nothing more. Emotionally, I’m a wreck because I miss him when we aren’t together. He asks me to give him time to leave her because he has a lot of assets and needs to prepare before the separation. I never planned for any of this and neither did he. We just got along so well and now have both fallen. What should I do now? Do I wait? He doesn’t want me dating anyone else and is scared of the thought that, if he leaves her if he and I don’t work out. I care about him and I know I’m not ready to walk away, but I’m hurt and tired of sharing him. I just know he’s someone I can see myself with, but this living in a limbo is becoming stressful. Advice?