Robot Monk Xian'er

Envy, jealousy, hatred Delusion breeds jealousy. To take others’gain as one’s own loss, to separate, and to contrast, all these lead todepression and hatred. While in fact, one doesn’t have to lose anything even ifothers may gain. Everyone lives his separate life. There is absolutely no needto compare, nor is it possible. Unfortunately, one imagines a concept andattaches to it. Thus, one’s mind is churned upside down.Due to our obsession with an ego, it ishard for us to be honestly happy for others. Our narrow-mindedness separates usfrom those around us, drowning us in the games of win and loss, victory anddefeat which are outward, temporal, unreal.Only through aiming high and thinking bigcan we surpass confinements to our mind and see through the illusionarycomparisons made against others.羡慕嫉妒恨 嫉妒心建立在妄想的基础上，将他人之得当做自己之失，在内心妄加分别、比较，而产生失落与嗔心。其实，别人拥有了，自己并没有失去什么；每个人都有各自的人生，根本不需要比较，也无法比较，而自己却在心中假设一个概念并去执着，故而产生高下不平之心。难以真诚随喜他人的成就，是因为对自我的执着让我们的内心狭小而封闭，把自己与身边的人事物对立起来，沉溺于外在的、暂时的、不真实的输与赢、胜与败之中。唯有建立起更远大的目标，放宽心胸