Random Thoughts With Nicole L. Turner

Ask yourself, AM I EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE? Here are some ways to tell:   You want to breakup whenever you hit a rough patch You don't want to talk about the future You don't involve your partner in your life.  You have self-centered behavior.  You avoid displays of affection.  The closer someone tries to get to you, the more you feel distant.  When your partner is direct about their feelings for you, it makes you feel unsure about everything You don't trust others because you don't trust yourself.  You're always trying to outsmart your own heart.  You look outside to others to show you love, but you don’t put much effort into showing love to others.  You're stuck on past relationships. You aren't willing to show your real self Tips to help you become more emotionally available Go back to the beginning. Where did your emotional unavailability start?  Identify which emotions you try to avoid or shut out.  Work on your patterns. Write down a list of the positive and negative traits of past partners and your own