Preston Moore: Thoughts, Attitudes & Behaviors

As I journaled this morning I wrote about a topic that consistently comes up for me. Why is it that I have this vision of who I want to be when I grow up, the kind of father and husband I want to be, how I want my life to be and yet, when I get the opportunity to move in that direction or to do something productive for that vision, I’ll watch Netflix instead!? Usually, I’ll subconsciously follow up that behavior with talking smack to myself, beating myself up or even calling it self-care (insert a strong “bull$h*t cough)! Our personal development peeps would call it, negative self-talk. I find that my negative beliefs and insecurities are so deep, they often go misdiagnosed. When this happens, its easy for me to distract myself with another video on “3 ways to combat procrastination” or “how to manifest millions in 30 days.” The truth is, most people, including me, don’t need another course, strategy or game plan. What they really need is to do the deep inner work that focuses on fear, insecurity, self-worth,