Sex Talk with Lou

Rather than just say "Do x, try y" I want to give people concrete examples of what are behaviors you need to put on your radar to ease you into a new social life and the next part of your life. When relationships end one goes through a mourning period and then at some point one lifts their head and looks at" Okay I want to get back out in the dating world. 1) How important do you think the 'THE LIST" is? What needs to be on it? What doesn't? Draft two lists one about them and one about you. 2) What are the mistakes you have watched your girlfriends and male friends make when looking for a partner.