Preston Moore: Thoughts, Attitudes & Behaviors

I admit it, I have an unhealthy relationship with my goals, dreams, and desires. I have always loved ideas like the Law of Attraction, SMART goals, and “if you can see it you can achieve it.” These are all good strategies and they work. I’ve just never been able to embrace them enough where they feel authentic. Some of the discomfort I feel around goalsetting and visualization is, I often feel unworthy or selfish for wanting amazing things to happen to me. My altruistic desires seem to be grappling with selfishnes, self-worth, and ego. I fantasize about, if "this" happens to me or if I get "this", THEN, everything will be OKKKKKK. Or, if I had these "things" or was "this" successful then you would like me and I would be enough. So, you can imagine why I have a hard time getting started with visualization and goalsetting tools. Even when I'm able to get into a visualization process, it doesn't last. The real funky thing is, even when it works and I get exactly what I want, it never feels as good as I thought i