The New Man

Does your partner want to solve problems or win arguments? What can you do if you feel trapped in a relationship? And how can you challenge your partner to step out of a victim mindset? In today’s coaching call, I talk with a man who’s got business challenges, two daughters, and a divorce to finalize. He’s at a pivotal point in his life as a man, and in this conversation we choose to focus on the challenges he’s facing with his new girlfriend. We use his anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. And we address his people pleasing in order to create a pathway to the wholeness and the relationship he truly wants. Note: What you’re about to hear is an actual coaching call. The person being coached volunteered and gave explicit permission to have our conversation recorded for this podcast. In this interview: Nice Guy Syndrome Feeling responsible for her emotions Getting grounded and present Stop trying to do relationship over text Having a “high maintenance” partner Plus: Being yourself vs playin