Sex Talk with Lou

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What would you do if you'd been severely injured and couldn't feel of keep connected to your partner? This was the 7th year our Panel on Relationship, Sexuality and Quality of Life presented for the Coalition to Support America's Heroes and addressed those issues. Where Sexuality and Religion Co-Exist, How Wartime Affects Sexuality, Reclaiming Sexuality in the Face of Disability - For You and Your Partner, Mating and Dating. Panel of 4 esteemed experts share what they know works for others so these soldiers and partners can create and recreate new and or revived connections.

A hilarious guidebook by a comedic writer who has walked the convoluted and less than straight road of digital dating. And the real reason for many on these sites despite their claims of seeking connection falls into one of the following categories: Facetime Sex, Kink Sex, Tantric Sex, Great Sex, Dreadful Sex oh and more LOL real adventures in digital dating. Red flags on a profile, How to showcase yourself and how to be true to what YOU want. Fleischer's experience of being on just about every dating website lead to her creation of PICTUREPERFECTPROFILES.COM

My colleague Michael Russer and I cover his new Milennial-focused Kickstarter based program kickstarterlaunch.com starting October 8th, for his book and program 'Helping Men Become What Women Love. This powerful never-before-created program is a step by step Guide for singles and couples to create EXTRAORDINARY INTIMACY through emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. Michael's own journey through impotence to Extraordinary Intimacy was the starting point for this completely unique model for loving, lasting relationships that people have always sought.

I start with a discussion of Emma Watson's presentation at the UN then to one of my most commonly asked questions - Whether it is a woman or a man - I am asked by people who are single "How do I make myself be more appealing? How do I 'DRAW' in my soul mate, my partner?" So this is HOW TO INSTANTLY INCREASE YOUR SEX APPEAL. One of your most powerful and seductive behaviors is your ATTENTION. How you pay ATTENTION, ATTENTION is a gift, it is a powerful energy that only one person can gve to another. LISTENING is another powerful tool you have should you use it. Gentle lIstening will give you a life and relationship unlike you ever expected. I suggest you do a LIST of 5 Items - You want and 5 that make YOU attractive to your partner. When you walk with the behaviors of: Confidence, Attention, Gentle Listening, Gentle Speaking you will create a completely new world for you and your heart.

I laughingly start with a video of Older adults reacting to the 50 Shades of Grey Trailer. They had a great range of responses that reflects the general population in the HuffPost Gold for the Soul. Reading Necessary Endings by Henry Cloud and his wisdom also applies to our sex lives and relationships. We have all seen there are absolutely times when we should have ended a sexual relationship, business relationship and or a personal relationship. Also Want to Be Kissed The Way You Want? Lou talks about that. My New Guilty Pleasure - Married at First Sight - this show is a window on how couples enter relationships. Anyone who is a therapist or wants to learn about love and relationships should glue their eyeballs to this show. They may call it a 'Social Experiment" yet it is an experiment that is working. The Married At First Sight Expert team of Pepper Schwartz PhD, Logan Levkoff PhD, Joseph Cilona PhD and Greg Epstein did an amazing job of selecting the couples and supporting these three couple

EroticTalkPhoneSex.com Enterpreneur Sharon Summer and I talk about what happens within an erotic phone call business. What are the best things people get from erotic talk? Masturbation with a friend. How does one get started in this? How and Who trains you? Sharon's world is a blend of part business, part sex, part eroticism. Who are their customers? Unique characteristics of some customers. Adult virgins are one group. Growing interest trends? How are you different from cam girls?

To start I describe what the Grapefruit Blowjob by Auntie Angel is and why it might have appeal for some. Summer is sex and relationships so as we head into the last days of summer are you looking for what you want in your life? If so activate the Law of Attraction. Ask yourself WHAT you REALLY want. What and Who do you really love? Take my quick quiz and see where you're focused. Want to know if you have a purpose in being here? Read Proof of Heaven. Want the sex life you want - Are you doing personal work? How are YOU taking care of your heart? Some Sex in the News stories.

Ever dreamt about doing that person at work and you wake up worried you're going to cheat or secretly wnat out of your relationship? Not necessarily!! It may be for arange of other reasons. Ever had a nocturnal orgasm? One where you're asleep and it happens? Kinsey's research found 40% of women have had them with women in their 40's being the largest number. Want to create erotc dreams? Read erotica just before going to slepp and keep a VERY deatiled Dream journal. Sometimes you'll be surprised where youur fantasies come from.

Lou covers her favorites of the week - Does an affair doom a relationship? Not necessarily according to Esther Perel. My previous guest Dr. Pepper Schwartz agrees with Perel that we now have changing ways of dealing with non-monogamy. Why I am curious people are judging the 50 Shades film solely by the trailer and in many cases they really don't have the right to do so. My new guilty pleasure married at First Sight a social experiment to see if science can help choose your ideal partner. Drawing from the very low arranged marriage divorce stats four experts pair three couples who meet at the altar.

Kim Airs of Grandopenings.com and Bubble Love is my guest post our attending the Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo (ANME) held semi-annually in Los Angeles. We talk what's new in sex toys, trends in products the new ZANE line, CRAVE make your own vibe promotion which is a great product, SPORTSHEETS new product line a new line for plus size women.

The fabulous Pepper Schwartz, PhD Sociologist at U of Washington and I discuss her in depth AARP survey and what surprised her in the responses. We talk about her latest book The Normal Bar and in looking at trends what surprised me is what she would study if she was new coming into this field. THEN we talk about her part in my NEW guilty pleasure. Pepper is the expert sociologist on the TV show MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT.

Lou weighs in on SCOTUS Supreme Court Rulings re Hobby Lobby, Articles that aren't what they seem to be suggesting in telling you watch TV have more sex, and another that tells you men want more foreplay. Both aren't what they seem to be and Lou tells you why.

June 23, 2014 Show # 623 Lou gives her take on Sex in the Media. The Sudanese Christian woman released, about Dov Charney getting fired from American Apparel, why she feels George Clooney chose Amal Alamuddin, importance of Jill Duggard's wedding, NastyGal.com's Sophie Amoruso's book Girl Boss. The wacky news items of Perez Hilton and Benjy Bronk's prostate exam from a weight loss bet on the Howard Stern show to the student getting stuck in the vagina/vulva sculture in Germany. How to REALLY read sexuality focused articles and how chances are the titles are misleading. TVs in the bedroom lead to more sex and Men Wanting More foreplay get debunked. Women who are having lots of sex - the gender biases and surprising reason according to Marrie Lobel @dirtyinpublic.com. She refers to Paula England's Hook-Up Culture research. The appeal of the Blue-Eyed felon.

Lou Paget gives you the University of Minnesota program in Sexual Health's 10 point Orgasmic IQ Quiz. She discusses Sex In The News, Great Lover's Behavior, and FAQs. That we need to take care of your Loves, her bff Dr Sherri Tenpenny lost her beloved husband in January and her experience has been a lesson for those who love. Lou's most recent Yourtango.com videos just posted on www.youtango.com

Lou does her recap of SEX IN THE NEWS and FAQ she is asked about SEXUAL BEHAVIORS. - CBS Sunday Trans Children video and why it's important. Mark Schoen's TRANS documentary film great insight of Trans children and adults. - Faking orgasm questions - how can you tel? - How do I choose a lubricant? - Fantasies - worried about fantasizing with husband. Difference between fantasies and fetishes. How can I introduce Fantasies into my relationship? - My Seven YOURTANGO.COM video segments, www.yourtango.com. Search on site - Lou Paget videos - How can I tell how I taste I worry I don't taste okay. I worry that my semen is too strong what can I do? - What do BDS and M stand for in BDSM? - My partner doesn't stay hard when he goes down on me. What can I do? - The damage and nonsense of Reparative Therapy that a GOP member wants to promote.

Kristin Newman - Hilarious interview discussing her memoir, WHAT I WAS DOING WHILE YOU WERE BREEDING, that every woman can identify with. A professional woman who realizes traveling is the key and insight to herself and her heart. Part personal journey, part heart journey, part sexual exploration. Want to know who the best lovers are? Released May 20, 2014. These are Life Lessons in a Showrunning Comedic Writer's Memoir. Perfect for armchair travelers and fans of comedic memoirs. WHAT I WAS DOING WHILE YOU WERE BREEDING is a refreshing and wildly funny debut from a born stroyteller. Kristin Newman's irreverent tales of sowing her wild oats will have readers scrambling to pack their suitcases and follow her lead.

1) Santa Barbara Kilings are they tied only to his virginity? 2) Decades long National Case of Slut Shaming - Monica Lewinsky. I give this woman kudos she is a walking talking example of media slut shaming and bullying. Shame on Kenneth Starr 3) Learning how to read sex articles - Weird thing that makes people Unsupportive of Gay Marriage - look at who and why the article is wrriten and then follow the money - who benefits from it. Look at the site publishing it, PLOS ONE is an open paltform with a 'publish first judge later.' A bit like the crappy tech products we get that are no longer beta tested. 4) Sex Trafficking Has Reached Facebook - no shock on that 5) Neko Case's reaction to Playboy's sexist tweet - you have to know your audience 6) Out of Touch Sex in The News - Warner Todd Huston - Sex Education and optional liefstyle classes are part of the root problem that caused the Santa Barbara killing spree....Oh REALLY???? 7) Another Phil Robertson's anti-gay sermon - which bible out of 157 E

Dr. Wilde is a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a California MFT. Sexuality is such a personal world with so much public social policy that Troubling Turn-Ons can occur for many individuals. We'll discuss a range of Troubling Turn-ons. How they differ from Fantasies. Dr. Wilde can be reached at www.winstonwilde.com and http://desertsexcenter.com/staff. 1) What determines a Troubling Turn-On? 2) How Does Turn-On differ from Fantasy? Or does it? 3) Examples of cases. Smoking, Can orgasm only with thoughts of genocide, Reality of most people attracted to minors, Only gets turned on when highly jealous, Partners must see him as their age @ 20 years younger, Jimmy Swaggert's prostitution attraction. 4) Do parents Make Their Kids Gay? Research looking at American children over twenty years says NO. 5) Lou comments on Recent Sex in Media. Jean Franzblau's Coming Out Kinky, California Women's Conference, Dr. Marissa Pei - Asian Oprah.

Lou Paget SEX IN THE NEWS...May 12/2014 AKA Become a Shrew Consumer of Media Sex Info. 1) Checkout this link to my contribution - http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/what-when-shes-not-interested-sex 2) Wide Hipped Woman have More Sex Partners...oh really??? 3) Women trying to sing while orgasming 4) Willow Smith her mother Jada Pinkett Smith's real comment 5) Michael Sam openly gay in NFL draft - his job is football his heart knows who he loves 6) Conchita Wurst Eurovision winner 7) Coming Out Kinky - Jean Franzblau 8) Emily Letts - video during abortion 9) Hanna Kern - Med School auctioning virginity 10) Professor sued over obsession with students bondage porn past 11) SIECUS REPORT 2013 12) Winston Wilde next week Troubling Turn ons