Sex Talk with Lou

My guest is a treasure trove of "What's New and What's Current in the world of Sexuality Education and Sex Therapy. www.drhernandochaves.com. Dr. Chaves is a CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, human sexuality professor and Askmen.com sex columnist. His philosophy is centered on empathetic, sex-positive support with a special emphasis on pleasure enhancement. His work with erotic communities focuses on lifestyle introduction, exploration, & acceptance of unique of sexual expression, processing interpersonal relationships & experiences such as identity formation, coming out, & internalized anxieties for individuals, couples, & families of LGBTQQ, QULTBAG, BDSM, fetish, sex work, adult industry, alternative sexual expression, poly, people of unique gender identities, orientations, & members of erotic communities. His work with sex therapy clients focuses on anxiety reduction, mindfulness, challenging sexual discomfort, sensate focus exercises, & pleasure education using insigh

Kim Airs has been in just about every area of commerce related to sexuality. We'll discuss her history in sex toys and retail, new trends, what she sees as new on the sex toy horizon AND her newest venture BubbleLove!!!! A brand new to the market innovative sex toy for women who love to use water for self-stim. She was the owner of Grand Openings, Sex educator, Entrepreneur, did Sex Toy Parties, is a Sex Toy and Product Developer and Consultant, and in her free time Blogger for XBiz and rides her motorcycles.

My guest tonight Jean Franzblau Produced, Wrote and Plays 20 different characters in her sexual autobiographical play COMING OUT KINKY: A Grown-Up Story We talk about all things Kinky. How did you know were Kinky? What questions should someone wondering if they are Kinky should ask themselves? How did this change your dating and relationships? Did your Kinky Sex Preferences change...Yes!! COMING OUT KINKY is Jean's emotional, physical and political sexual awakening, at times hilarious others scary and others very heartfelt as she learns about BDSM, KINKY sex, being a submissive. Discovering her Kinky Sex preferences was her sexual awakening leading to what she had been looking for for 2 decades her sexual fulfillment. www.kinkyjean.com FB/TW/LinkedIn

Oh GOOD I’ve got your attention!!! Lara Catone and Diego Wallraff are California State Board of Education Certified SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORKERS. What does a sexological bodywork session look like? What are the main issues that bring people to Lara and Diego? Are these sessions only in person? Is anyone nude? How does this differ from Sexual Surrogacy? How long does it take? How did you do your training and where? Both Lara Catone and Diego Wallraff have extensive backgrounds in body healing therapies, yoga, massage therapy, breath work and tantra, yet there were still times they could not reach or help previous clients release or connect to what was blocking them. Sexological Bodywork was the solution for them. www.laracatone.com www.atouchfromtheheart.com

Lou covers Sex in The Media, from Lady Gaga to Bisexuality, World's Worst Dater to Porn Studies, Duck Dynasty's anti-gay stance to Gay Marriage in Michigan...and why the mindset behind both is the same. Given we are inundated by media presented 'factoids' often from the same news feed services it behooves us as consumers to adopt a Caveat Emptor attitude and become our own informed consumer of information especially in the arena of our sexuality.

Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson combined diverse excellence in legal and tantra, and professional opera soprano when they became a couple. Fifteen years later they have used that knowledge and those skills to create an expanded body of sexual and partnered passion. Simple, science supported and honest this book has the heartbeat of connecting partners. About the Authors: A graduate of NYU and Yale, Mark A Michaels writes for scholarly and legal publications and his plays have been produced off-Broadway. He took his first Tantra class in 1997 and gave his first lecture on the subject two years later. Patricia Johnson spent many years as a professional operatic soprano. In 1999, a longstanding interest in Tantra inspired her to attend a lecture by Mark Michaels, now her husband and collaborator. Since then, she and Michaels have taught and lectured throughout the world. They live in New York City.

LORRAINE HOLNBACK BRODEK author of A NOBODY in a SOMEBODY World, My Hollywood Life in Beverly Hills. Lorraine was guided by a comment from Jonathan Winters to 'Turn your brain into a camera and take little mental snapshots of all the going's on.' And take snapshots she did. Lorraine grew up in A-List Beverly Hills in the 50's and has seen the Hollywood world as an insider who could observe undetected. Why? because as her dear friend Erma Bombeck stated, she was a 'nobody'. Blending her long career in production and marketing within the Hollywood studio system Brodek recounts an insider's view of slices of Beverly Hills people, Hollywood events and on the road productions.

ELLEN DOLGEN - www.ellendolgen.com. Join me and the hilarious Ellen Dolgen. Want to hear about - O Shot? Hormones? Sex Advice? Dolgen is part health advocate, part best girlfriend and part educator about Perimenopause and Menopause. Author of Shimirshky, and creator of what a twitter writer suggested The Oscar go to the Singing Uterus and host of Menopause Mondays @ ellendolgen.com. AKA as the Vagina Whisperer Ellen wants women and their partners to know - Suffering in Silence is OUT, Reaching out is IN!!!!

Sex and the Little People. Standing a statuesque 3'11" Marylou Naccarato DHS, PhD(c) is a little person, and a Sexuality Educator. www.DrMarylou.com http://high10yourlife.com/images_nav/head.jpg Dr. Marylou conducts explicit educational and entertaining sex and relationship workshops, for all people who desire to heighten their sensuality and intimacy. She shares fun creative techniques, sex positions, and a variety of adult toys that are suited to your range of mobility! She also holds private and group sessions for teens, adult individuals and/or couples. One of her goals is to bring forth issues regarding sensuality and intimacy for people with short stature, disabilities, or chronic illness. She personally believes that everyone is disabled or “differently-abled” in one way or another. “It’s all a matter of degree, and whether your condition is visibly noticeable” she states. Dr. Marylou also conducts educational sexuality seminars for students and professional clinicians in the field of Sexology, S

#WeCantDateIf is the inspiration for tonight's #sextalkwithlou. Quizzes to get you ready for sex and love. Quiz #1 - Do a Real Analysis of Yourself? In a Relationship - How's it working? Want to change how things are going? Quiz #2 - Your Body - Its Care and feeding. Are you too hard on yourself? Market to your type. Quiz #3 - Clear About What you Want? This is where you need to be rigorously honest with yourself. Quiz #4 - What's Your Relationship & Sex History - no time to lie to yourself. Quiz #5 - Looking For Them. The more in love with you that you are the magnetic you become.

JUST RELEASING!!! IRIS KRASNOW - SEX After - Women Share How Intimacy Changes As Life Changes. This is much needed book and MUCH needed conversations, for women, their partners and relationships. Below is my testimonial on the back of her book. "This book will start conversations that need to be had, and discussions about female sexual health and pleasure that need to be better understood. I know only too well that some of the best and most practical advice comes from those who had been there. I also know change to and in our sex lives is inevitable and that women want to know what other women really do to recreate their intimate and sexual landscape. Part validation, part guide, part supportive girlfriend Sex After is your close girlfriends in book form sharing the real goods and I mean real goods on what they did and do. Iris asks REAL women and men "How can a woman sustain intimacy through the many physical and emotional shifts of the female growth cycle?" Sex After… is filled with advice in

The We-Vibe story is part entrepreneurial dream and part ideal marketing timing. My guest is Tori Parker the Director of Business Development - The Americas. I always look for company's that have superior products and an honest work ethos. we-vibe.com The newest addition is the We-Vibe 4. Daydreaming to the hum of his car tires on the asphalt during a long road trip, inventor Bruce Murison wondered why there wasn't a massager that could just slide in between a couple while they made love. That started a journey of another type for Bruce and his wife, Melody. The more Bruce researched, the more he found an industry full of products that were intimidating, poorly designed and cheaply made. Bruce and Melody founded Standard Innovation Corporation and Bruce dedicated himself to the enormous — and enormously important — task of creating safe, high-quality, eco-friendly sexual wellness products that enhance the lovemaking experience for couples. Many years and thousands of design iterations later, the patent

My best friend Sherri Tenpenny's husband Kevin Carey died suddenly last week. Truly they had a so perfect for them relationship. They would often comment "How in the world did we ever find one another?" To say Sherri and Kevin are/were unique is an understatement. Soul Mates. The shock of this had me look at my own life and relationships. It is often when there is no return that we have a biggest learning curves in life and in our sexual relationships. I started talking about sex after my friend Bryan's partner Donn dies of AIDS. That life lesson started me on the path of talking about sexual health. I also learned from Kevin's, Donn's and my mother's death Don't delay saying something to someone - SAY IT NOW!!! Also don't choose relationships based on what your THINK someone else tells you to choose. Sexual Patterns of choice are downloaded by experience and influences. Choose them wisely.

Bedded Bliss - A Couple's Guide to Lust Ever After & XOXO SWEET AND SEXY ROMANCE her two most recent books, Cleis Press, 2013/2014 www.KristinaWright.com / FB/twitter/ just about everywhere!! This is Erotica Night!!!Tonight my guest is award winning erotica writer Kristina Wright whose life actually is more like yours than you could imagine. Just with a little twist. These are Kristina's own words; " I just celebrated my 23rd wedding anniversary and I have been writing erotica and erotic romance for almost 15 years, tapping into the desires of average people who often write me notes saying they wish they could share their fantasies with their partner. The book covers every stage of marriage, from newlywed to middle age and beyond, including the ups and downs of parenting, long distance separations, changes in libido, etc. In 23 years, I've experienced just about everything marriage has to offer and I am happy to share my experience and wisdom with readers, along with asking a dozen erotica authors--

Charlie Glickman, Ph.D. Sexuality Educator, Author, Speaker and Trainer www.charlieglickman.com, facebook.com/charlieglickman, Twitter @charlieglickman, www.makesexeasy.com https://rockhisworldla.eventbrite.com - February 8th-9th Santa Monica Again I get to interview Charlie Glickman about his break through book, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure. We have tons of material, research and awareness about the Female G Spot and finally the Male G Spot is getting its spotlight. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure - finally a plain speaking, solid sex education book for Prostate Pleasure. As two top Sex Educators, Charlie Glickman PhD and Aislinn Emirzian have put together an easy reading book on a subject that is equal parts prostate health and powerful sexual pleasure. Charlie, Aislinn and I will debunk myths, (You are not secretly gay if you like this type of pleasure!!!) and answer the most commonly asked 'wrong' questions and deliver for women and men the potential of Prostate Pleasure. Men a

Lou does her Final Show of 2013 - Starting with Sexual Zeitgeist 2013 - Joycelyn Elders Chair in Sexual Health Education fully funded, Pope Francis as a powerful role model, Coalition to Support America's Heroes R2R, Children of the Night, Ideal Partner Exercise. The powerful experience of being invited to attend The Road to Recovery with other panel members for the Relationships, Sexuality and Quality of Life panel and breakout sessions. Panel members were Lou Paget CSE, Linda Mona PhD, Bill Stayton ThD, PhD, Tom Stewart CEO Sportsheets, Mitch Tepper PhD. Medical Anthropologist Zoe Wool and PhD Anthropology student Antoinette Izzo, Diane Paget RN, BN also provided support to these 100 families.

Ever wanted to slow down the clock physically? Reverse it?? Well tonight's guest Jackie Silver is THE expert voice YOU have been waiting for. Seriously this woman has 5 Steps to have you rejuvenate / age backwards. And one of them is looking at your earlobes. She taught me things I never expected would be indicators and simple daily ways to 'AGE BACKWARDS" Below is from Jackie's site: www.agingbackwards.com Hi! So glad you stopped by! Check out all my secrets, tips and shortcuts for staying young and gorgeous, and just have fun exploring here. You’ll also find the latest beauty and anti-aging news and reviews. Plus, you’ll get great advice from some of the best experts in the world. In case you’re wondering, I wasn’t just “born this way.” It’s taken some, um, work and a whole lot of research. Want proof? Click on the purple button to see me at age 12. Okay, blow dryers weren’t invented yet! LOL When it comes to looking beautiful and young, I do all the research for you so all you have to do is just

Micheal Russer was my guest on August 8th and I knew I was hearing a positive we-can-do message that many many couples needed to hear. That erectile issues and impotence are NOT the END of your love life. As a result Michael and I collaborated on the beta test webinar EXTRAORDINARY INTIMACY - a 4 week program to share this ground breaking attitude and step by step method. So tonight I have the gift of Michael and his partner Jacky Lopez on to share their story of creating intimacy they did not know was possible. These are two entrepreneurs with busy lives and they will share how they have been able to create this intimacy. Then in the second half Micheal and I will discuss what we learned from our beta testers and what our next steps are for the EXTRAORDINARY INTIMACY webinar series. Michael Russer's upcoming book (2014 release) “HARDLY BROKEN – One man’s journey to extraordinary intimacy in the face of full impotence” FYI - You can go to http://hardlybroken.com to pre-register for various benefits p

This is Lou's Sex in The News starting with how Halloween gives you insight into people's sexual selves and fantasies. Some websites seem rather out of it on their offerings however they strike a nerve on how people wish to be perceived. NOW booking private Skype sessions so you can send private e-mails to office@loupaget.com. I discuss my twice monthly volunteering at Children of the Night a rescue Shelter Home for children rescued from underage prostitution. Olga Cohen of OlgasSecret.net very generously donated her Vaginal Wash for the girls. Finished the Extraordinary Intimacy Webinar's beta testing and my co-creator Michael Russer and I got terrific feedback and more importantly the participants got great results and information for future use. I am on expert on Yourtango.com's video segment - Marriage get Better if You Live Together First? More posting over next 6 weeks.

The delightful and resourceful Olga Cohen creator of Vaginal Renewal Complex (VRC) is my repeat guest. Truly one of best products I recommend for women of all ages who find vaginal dryness interfers with pleasurable sex. As a bride in her early 40's who was slammed into early menopause Olga took her deep consumer products background and teamed with two M.D.s to create Vaginal Rejuvenation Complex, a non-hormonal, natural ingredients, no parabens vaginal cream. Her other outstanding product is Vaginal Wash which I highly recommend as a gentle way to cleanse the vulvar area and feel clean and fresh. www.Innerintimates.net, contact Olga directly @ ogcohen@optonline.com