Bu With Declan Edwards

We all know those conversations; the ones you put off, rehearse in your head, and hope magically resolve themselves. Whether it’s giving feedback, setting a boundary, or addressing tension with a teammate or boss, tough conversations are a non-negotiable part of working well with others. But most of us were never taught how to have them.In this episode of How to Be Happy at Work, I unpack the real reasons we avoid difficult conversations (spoiler: fear, discomfort, and people-pleasing play a big role), and share evidence-based tools to help you show up with clarity and compassion. We’ll dive into:✅ Why Brene Brown says "clear is kind", and how vagueness erodes trust✅ Kim Scott’s Radical Candor model, and how to challenge directly while still caring personally✅ The psychology behind our avoidance, including fear of rejection and the nervous system response✅ The dangers of the dreaded “sh*t sandwich” feedback method (and what to do instead)✅ Prompts, prep tips, and real-life examples to help you navig