Say That

Super-Fan Kenneth just got married (like the day the recorded this), and wrote in asking for advice on how to have an awesome marriage. So Glen, Lee, and Jed put together their over 4 decades of combined experience. If you are  a newlywed, been married for a while, or are planning on being married at any point in the future, you need to hear this one!  We cover developing your own communication style, handling conflicts that inevitable arise, pulling on the same end of the rope, and more! First, however, we have to deal with a Christian t-shirt emergency. See exactly what we are talking about on the show post on the blog.  Our outro is a song Lee wrote specifically for Jed’s wedding. Check out our blog: thebridgechicago.tumblr.com Follow us on twitter: @thebridgechi BridgeBox: missionusa.com/bridgebox

How do I let go of fears about what might happen in the future? (18:30-32:55)What does the emotional feeling I get during worship mean?(32:58-49:40)How do I help a significant other who doesn't seem interested in getting help? (49:45-70:21)Outro song: Genesis 12:1 (Poolhouse Guru ft. Pastor Mike Neal)

Is dating biblical or just cultural? (19:19-39:55)Why does the Bible say things in one place and seemingly say something different in another? (40:01-57:35What are strategies for dealing with addiction? (57:39-73:52)Closing Song: I Am New (Jed Brewer)

How do I have a balanced life while still being driven to succeed in my career? (17:17-37:07)My ex and I broke up for the right reasons, so why does it still hurt so much? (37:11-54:14)It is important to get to know someone well before you share your faith with them? (54:19-1:09:30)Closing Song: I Am The Storm (Something Epic)

How can I be generous when I am broke? (17:21-33:17)What is the minimum amount of doctrine someone needs to believe to be a Christian? (33:22-46:00)How do I handle the anxiety of making big life decisions? (46:03-1:05:35)Closing Song: Cast My Cares (Pete and Tasha Lawson)

Glen is a Valentine's Day Warrior on Fire (-17:44)What does moving on from depression and anxiety actually look like? (18:08-33:56)What does "hanging out with Jesus" mean? (34:00-45:20)I realize the messages I heard about "purity" when I was a teen are messed up, so how do I healthily navigate relationships? (45:24-65:48)Closing Song: Different (Jed Brewer)

Glen, Jed, and Matt share hilarious, incredible, and uplifting stories from their day job working with ex-cons, recovering addicts, and gang-members in inner-city Chicago.

What does Matthew 7:21-23 actually mean for us? (17:12-34:48)How do you help someone who is having suicidal thoughts? (34:53-50:16)The right (and wrong) way to discuss sensitive subjects. (50:19-74:55)

Is this job still my calling, even though it is way harder than I expected? (20:46-44:58)What are legitimate dealbreakers in a long term relationship? (45:03-57:02)My parents threatened to cut me off financially if I follow Jesus, what do I do? (57:06-1:11:40)

How do I get back on track after hitting a rough patch of depression and anxiety? (15:31-32:35)Do bad things happen to us because of our sins? (32:40-48:43)How do I know when it's time to start dating? (48:47-1:04:14)Closing Song: Take My Life and Let It Be (Lee Younger)

Ecclesiastes 9 and 11 explained! What exactly is the word of God? Is God punishing me for living with my boyfriend?

The 2nd annual Say That awards! (0:00-22:00)How do you deal with being double-minded? (22:40-33:15)Dating etiquette and dating fear (33:20-43:20)Helping people without being taken advantage of (43:23-64:57)Outro song: Your Thoughts Are Not My Thoughts (Jed Brewer)

How does an introvert go about sharing the gospel? (18:02-33:58)What guidelines and questions actually go into setting physical boundaries in a relationship? (34:00-47:55)If Jesus paid all of my debt, what does the parable about investing talents mean? (47:58-62:30)

How do you balance praying for your own needs with praying for others? How do you maintain your sanity when you're the only single one at holiday gatherings? How do you overcome stage fright when leading worship or speaking?

What does it mean that wisdom laughs at the foolish? The guys give preaching and ministry tips. What is the smart way to manage financial giving? And we have an interview with musician Randall Goodgame about making music to entertain and minister to both children and their parents (and everyone else). Check out more from Randall at slugsandbugs.com Outro song: Freedom from Slugs and Bugs Sing The Bible (available now)

How do I keep my fear of rejection from preventing my from finding good community? What does Ephesians 5 mean for dating couples? How do I approach a conversation with my parents about them being less controlling?

What does it actually mean to find your identity in Christ? How do you go about getting your heart ready for the day? What makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy? And, an interview with wonderful singer-songwriter Sandra McCracken. We talk hymns, the power of communal singing, making music to minister to children, and much more! (26:50-45:10) Outro song: "Thy Mercy, My God" by Sandra McCracken

If God meets all our needs, what are romantic relationship for? Is God frustrated with me when I procrastinate and don't do the things I should be doing? What's the deal with election versus free will?

How do I get help with my pornography problem? I want to follow the Lord, but I was raised very differently than the people at church, how do I navigate that? How do I deal with the societal pressures to have a lavish engagement and wedding? 

How do you help people without burning out? What is the difference between humility and self-doubt? How do I help someone I love with body image issues?