Synopsis
Welcome to This Is Gonna Hurt, the podcast of J. Gordon Duncan. At This is Gonna Hurt, we address the tough questions around our spiritual, physical, financial, and family health. It hurts to make real change, but persevering through the pain is worth it to reach goals and be healthy. We are here to help. Who am I, and why should you listen to me? I certainly don't know everything, but I am a husband, father, pastor, endurance athlete, epilepsy fighter, writer, and business consultant. Along the way, I'll share my mistakes and my wins. You can find out more about at me www.jgordonduncan.com.
Episodes
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The Power of Personal Accountability - Episode 573
11/08/2025 Duration: 09minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon discussed the evolution of his podcast format and introduced new mini-sode episodes while sharing his perspective on maintaining optimism while being accountable. He emphasized the importance of personal responsibility and accountability in achieving goals, using personal examples like his Boston Marathon qualification attempts while struggling with seizures to illustrate perseverance. Gordon encouraged listeners to focus on their objectives, make intentional choices, and maintain accountability despite challenges.Thanks again!
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Mini Episode #1: If you feel stuck in life right now, hear this!
07/08/2025 Duration: 55sYou don’t need a total overhaul.You need a clear, intentional plan to grow in the areas that actually matter.Your faith doesn’t have to feel dry.Your family can be closer.Your fitness can improve, starting with small wins.And your finances? You can get in control, one decision at a time.You’ve got the potential. You just need a path. That’s what I help you build.If you’re ready to stop drifting and start living intentionally, go to CapitalizeYourBest.com and let’s talk. #capitalizeyourbestlife
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5 Hard But Transformative Life Lessons From the Past Week - Episode 572
04/08/2025 Duration: 10minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon shared five lessons learned from the past week, emphasizing the importance of seeking help when needed. He discussed how making the choice to get help is crucial for personal growth and improvement, regardless of the challenges involved. Gordon also mentioned a conversation with someone who found it difficult to admit the need for help, but he stressed that taking the first step towards seeking assistance is essential for moving forward.Check out the episode to learn the others, and thanks again!
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Divine Appointments: Meaningful Connections in Life - Episode 571
28/07/2025 Duration: 08minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon discussed the concept of divine appointments, arguing that every interaction is an opportunity for meaningful connection rather than a chance encounter. He shared personal examples, including his friendship with Maggie, which began at a conference and has lasted several years, and his 29-year marriage to Amy, emphasizing that relationships have seasons and may change over time. Gordon concluded by encouraging listeners to understand that all relationships are subject to change and to offer grace to others as they navigate their unique journeys.
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Road to the Starting Line - How to Prepare For a Training Cycle - Episode 570
21/07/2025 Duration: 11minThanks for watching and listening! Gordon announced his plans to train for the Emerald Isle Marathon, ending his streak of running the Richmond Marathon, and discussed his reasons for choosing thisrace. He shared details about his current training plan, including his approach to dealing with a lingering Achilles injury and his focus on strengthening exercises. Gordon also outlined his goals for improving his overall fitness and recovery, including adjustments to his diet and supplement regimen, while expressing gratitude for his current fitness level at 54. Here are some of the highlights of the plan:Gordon to begin 14-week marathon training cycle for Emerald Isle Marathon on Monday.Gordon to increase gym sessions to at least twice a week, focusing on strengthening calves and Achilles.Gordon to adjust running schedule to 5-6 days per week, with 1-2 days in the gym.Gordon to improve hydration and consider reducing alcohol intake.Gordon to adjust smoothie recipe for more protein and less fruit sugar.Gordon to
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Using AI For Your Personal Development - Episode 569
14/07/2025 Duration: 09minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon shares his experience using AI technology, specifically an AI running coach named Curly, for personal fitness tracking and development. He discusses how AI can be a useful tool for monitoring activities and providing basic guidance, though it's important to recognize that it cannot fully replace human professionals.Gordon encourages listeners to explore AI tools for personal growth while promoting his upcoming seminar on brain training and development.You can also register for the "Who's in Charge Here" seminar on brain training at https://capitalizeyourbestlife.com/thriveThanks again!
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The Duncans Talk Intuition, Manifestation, & The Connection Between Spiritual & Physical - Ep 568
07/07/2025 Duration: 10minGordon discussed the evolution of his podcast's focus and shared insights about the power of thoughts and their physical effects, including examples of manifestation and intuition. He explored the connection between spiritual and physical realms, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive mindset, confidence, and compassion in daily life. Gordon concluded by reflecting on the relationship between physical and spiritual aspects, encouraging listeners to share their perspectives on the topic.
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Removing Your Self-Worth From Other People’s Opinions - Episode 567
30/06/2025 Duration: 09minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon introduces stoicism as a philosophy focused on controlling one's thoughts, actions, and reactions, particularly highlighting Marcus Aurelius' teachings and Ryan Holiday's modern interpretation. He explores how stoicism helped him during his personal recovery and shares a specific quote from Meditations that influenced his perspective on self-love and the importance of focusing on personal goals rather than seeking external validation. Gordon relates these Stoic principles to his experiences in running and business, encouraging listeners to base their sanity on personal efforts rather than external opinions and recommending Ryan Holiday's work for further exploration of Stoicism.Thanks again!
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Not Wanting Something Is As Good As Having It - Episode 566
23/06/2025 Duration: 08minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon discusses the concept that "not wanting something is as good as having it" on his podcast. He explains that this idea relates to contentment and encourages listeners not to give in to pressure to want things they don't need. Gordon provides personal examples, such as not wanting a dog despite others' suggestions, and emphasizes the importance of being content with healthy choices. He briefly touches on how this principle applies to marketing, suggesting that businesses should focus on meeting customers' needs rather than convincing them they need a product. Gordon concludes by mentioning his upcoming marketing lab and inviting listeners to reach out or attend his events.Thanks again!
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The Waiting Game: Contracts, Friends, and Inner Strength - Episode 565
16/06/2025 Duration: 09minThanks for watching and listening!In this episode, Gordon discusses the challenges of waiting in both personal and professional contexts, emphasizing the importance of strategic activities during waiting periods. He explores the nature of relationships and their ability to thrive during seasons of silence or imperfection, advising patience and trust in established relationships. Gordon emphasizes the value of developing inner strength during waiting periods, encouraging listeners to trust that progress is being made even when outcomes are not immediately visible.Thanks again for watching and listening!
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Three Things I’ve Gotten Wrong in 2025 - Episode 564
09/06/2025 Duration: 11minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon introduces the episode of the "This is Gonna Hurt" podcast, which now focuses on creating a better version of oneself. He explains that the podcast aims to improve mental, physical, and spiritual health on Mondays, while his business and marketing podcast “This is Gonna Hurt” airs on Wednesdays. Gordon then shares that he will discuss three things he has gotten wrong in his personal growth journey so far in 2025, hoping that listeners can learn from his experiences and reflect on their own progress.Gordon acknowledged a shift in his focus this year, noting that while he has achieved some running goals, he has been less goal-oriented and more distracted by cultural and daily issues. He recognized that this lack of focus has impacted his ability to meet specific financial and sales targets. Gordon plans to regain his "goal-first" mentality by writing down his goals daily and returning to regular mindset training, which includes listening to affirmations and journaling.Go
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How to Vacation Poorly - Episode 563
02/06/2025 Duration: 12minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon shared his experience working during a vacation, emphasizing the importance of time blocking and scheduling to maximize productivity. He noted that while he set up his work efficiently on Sunday, he struggled with self-discipline during the week, often checking his phone and computer too frequently. Gordon highlighted the value of affordable and simple activities, such as thrifting and grilling, to enjoy with family. He concluded by encouraging purposeful work during vacations and stress-free relaxation, expressing gratitude for his audience and inviting them to tune in to his weekly podcasts.Thanks again!
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Surprising Takeaways From The Marine Corps Historic Half - Episode 562
26/05/2025 Duration: 19minThanks for Watching and Listening!Gordon announced a strategic shift in the podcast's focus toward personal development topics, including physical fitness and brain health, while introducing upcoming monthly seminars in Fredericksburg. He shared his recent success at the Fredericksburg Historic Half event, where he won both the 5K and Half-marathon Grand Master's Division despite taking a surprising approach. Gordon concluded by introducing a new 90-day life program with a special discount offer and emphasized how running-related lessons can apply to various aspects of personal and professional growth.Capitalize Your Best Life 90-Day ProgramThanks again!
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Setting Down Memory Anchors To Make Progress - Episode 561
19/05/2025 Duration: 13minThanks for Watching and Listening!Gordon shared updates about his relaunched podcast, which now features a split format focusing on personal here on Mondays and Capitalize Your Best with business growth on Wednesdays. He discussed his recent success in a running competition and explained the concept of memory anchors, using his personal experience with epilepsy as an example to demonstrate how challenging experiences can be transformed into positive motivations. Gordon announced an upcoming seminar in Fredericksburg and encouraged listeners to register at www.capitalizeyourbestlife.com/thrive
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A New Beginning and a New Direction - Episode 560
12/05/2025 Duration: 10minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon discussed the evolution of the show, which has shifted from a focus on personal growth and development to a business and marketing focus. He announced that "This is Gonna Hurt" will now focus on personal growth and development, while "Capitalize Your Best" will be dedicated to business and marketing. Gordon also mentioned the possibility of reviving his old podcast, "You're Entitled to Your Opinion," for movie and show reviews.He also mentioned his monthly Capitalize Your Best Life podcasts, which you can learn more about at https://capitalizeyourbestlife.com/thriveThanks for watching and listening!
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3 Lessons From My Millionaire Mentor Part 2 - Episode 559
05/05/2025 Duration: 11minThank you for watching and listening!Gordon announced upcoming changes to the podcast, including the continuation of "This is Gonna Hurt" on Mondays and the separation of "Capitalize Your Best" to publish on Wednesdays. He also shared feedback from listeners on a recent episode and discussed the importance of time management and efficiency, using his mentor's approach as an example. Lastly, Gordon highlighted three key takeaways from his recent meeting with a mentor, emphasizing the value of clear timeframes, long-term perspectives, and efficient problem-solving.Thanks again!
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4 Ways to Get Unstuck - ReDiscovered Episode 558
28/04/2025 Duration: 10minWelcome to another episode!This show was discovered on my phone from a few years ago, where we share a few tips on how to get unstuck. I offer 4 strategies, and I hope this helps when you are stuck!Thanks for watching and listening!
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Does Your Business Have Million-Dollar Potential? Lessons From My Millionaire Mentor Conversation - Episode 557
21/04/2025 Duration: 11minThanks for listening and watching!Gordon discusses the ongoing development of his two podcasts, "This is Gonna Hurt" and "Capitalize Your Best," mentioning plans to differentiate them in the future. He thanks listeners for their support and announces upcoming events, including a personal coaching seminar called "Sometimes Life Starts Over" on March 22nd in Fredericksburg. https://capitalizeyourbestlife.com/thriveGordon also shares a recent experience of receiving a call from his mentor, during which he asked three important questions, and expresses his intention to share the insights gained from this conversation.The mentor shared insights on how businesses adapt to market instability and the importance of offering value and affordability. Gordon also learned from the mentor that his reputation as a trustworthy and effective coach is a distinguishing factor in the market. Gordon encourages you to seek honest and objective feedback from someone with more wisdom and success in his
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Creating a Routine For Massive Content Creation - Episode 557
14/04/2025 Duration: 14minThanks for watching and listening!Gordon discusses his content creation strategy for social media marketing, which involves creating multiple pieces of content across various platforms and repurposing them for different audiences and groups. He also mentioned his upcoming "Spring Forward Buys Side" event for real estate agents and his "Capitalize Your Best Life" seminar. You can find them both below:Real Estate Spring Forward - Buyer Side Marketing Strategies"Sometimes Life Starts Over"https://capitalizeyourbestlife.com/thrive
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There is a Playbook for Success and Now It Can Be Yours - Episode 556
07/04/2025 Duration: 07minThanks for listening!Gordon discussed the upcoming "Rock and Roll April" event and introduced a new resource called the "Capitalize Your Best Playbook" for business growth. The playbook will be available for purchase on May 1st with a promotional price.Gordon emphasized catering to different learning styles and encouraged attendees to seek more information.Get your playbook at https://buy.stripe.com/fZedTecim9ZI0GQ2bn

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