Say That

I have a relative who needs help but clearly doesn't want it from me. How can I help? (13:11-29:30) I left the faith I grew up in and have encountered some ideas and experiences that freak me out since. I don't know what to think. (29:36-46:21) I made changes and life got better. But now I need to make another set of changes and I am worried that will unsettle my life. How do I know which changes are good? (46:24-1:00:28) Closing Song: Jesus Loves Me (The Bridge Loud ft Harley Smalley) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (anonymous)

Our full chat with Vicar Derek Kubilus of the Cross Over Q Podcast. Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask Us A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

I have been alone most of my life and have started getting to know people. But when they don't have time for me, I feel like acting out or spouting negativity. What should I do? (18:12-32:16) Matt talks with Vicar Derek Kubilus from the Cross Over Q podcast about QAnon, its effects on christian communities, and how Christians and church leaders can help people caught up in it. (33:23-48:00) I have big dreams and thinking about them brings me joy, but I am worried that they might be bad for me or ungodly. How do I know what's going on? (48:57-1:03:44) Closing Song: Come Ye Disconsolate (Eric Peters) Cross Over Q on Apple Podcasts Cross Over Q on Spotify Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

*Note* We have a few audio hiccups in the intro. Everything is back to normal about 2 minutes in. I recently heard someone say the church should reject Critical Race Theory because it is "divisive". What do you guys think? (17:23-33:34) In 1 Peter 5, it talks about suffering. But Christians seem to glorify and wallow in suffering. How should we see suffering? (33:38-50:04) We discuss the article- Four Defining Moments for Young Marriages (50:13-1:07:13) Closing Song: Just As I Am (The Bridge Loud) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I am having impure thoughts overtime. I do good, but I feel like I am condemning myself. (12:43-30:12) You guys talk about not owing anyone an argument. Is there a caveat in there for calling people out for acting like jerks? (30:20-49:22) When someone turns down my help or advice I feel worthless. How do I process that? (49:27-1:03:56) Closing Song: Micah 6:8 (The Poolhouse Guru) Bible Florida Man Stories: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/mqq25v/what_bible_story_would_qualify_as_a_florida_man/

I had a tough conversation with someone. It went pretty well, but I don't think it ends with us being like best friends. It feels weird. Is that okay? (15:58-30:34) I am struggling with loneliness. How can I deal with this? (30:42-45:37) I have a problem with anger. I don't realize I am angry until it's too far along. What can I do? (45:47-1:04:52) Closing Song: It Is Well (Pete and Tasha Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask Yahoo Finance Article about $300 Bible

I had a bad experience with ministry leadership. How do I approach a new opportunity? (13:17-31:39) I want a divorce. I know I shouldn't want that, but I do. What do I do? (31:46-54:13) How do I keep patience going? (54:16-1:08:36) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I know Jesus doesn't condemn me for my past, but it is really easy to judge myself for it. How do I stop that? (16:19-31:56) Every morning I wake up and am immediately mad at the world. What does God want me to do? (32:01-49:50) As the world starts to reopen, how should we pace ourselves with social engagements and deal with things like a desire to cancel plans? (49:54-1:05:52) Closing Song: I Must Tell Jesus Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) The Gunslinger Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVkJ4GRzyV0

Should I date someone who doesn't want to go to church because of bad past experiences? (17:10-32:12) A lot of people are linking the Atlanta area shooter to purity culture. I grew up in that type of environment and it is kind of freaking me out. What's your take on that? (32:16-50:28) I recently joined my church's council, but I feel like I am having trouble getting used to how it works. Any tips? (50:31-1:11:39) Closing Song: Old Rugged Cross (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question:  saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous) Links to things we discuss in the Emergency: Tomb Toy-Filled Easter Eggs Governor Noem's Tweet Air CFAS

What does it mean to "walk by the spirit"? (15:42-29:53) I got a new job and am having a lot of anxiety about proving myself to new people. Any advice? (29:56-48:29) I really don't like change. How can I better with it? (48:33-1:02:36) Closing Song: Fatherless (The Bridge Loud ft Lins Honeyman) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumble.com/ask

How do I know who I can trust? (14:41-31:46) What are Christians supposed to make of "cancel culture"? (31:50-53:02) I feel like the last year has messed with my idea of joy, how do I reset it? (53:07-1:11:14) Closing Song: Though The Mountains (The Yearwoods) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

1 Corinthians 13:11 says to put off childish things, but Jesus said to come to him like a child. What am I missing? (16:44-31:07) Why do I have trouble concentrating when I pray? (31:12-46:36) I have a friend who has experienced trauma around church and religion. How do I speak about my faith with them without hurting them? (46:40-1:01:48) Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division) The picture we discuss in the emergency: https://twitter.com/mattkinger/status/1369436223538888706?s=20 Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

What is the purpose of marriage, practically? (16:30-31:19) A relative created a situation that got me in trouble with my landlord, now the whole thing is a big mess. How do I deal with all the freak out this is causing me? (31:24-49:34) How to you proceed when you mean well but still fall short? (49:39-1:04:06) Closing Song: Deuteronomy 31:6 (The Poolhouse Guru)  Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

God gave me a great job. How do I make sure I am not overworking? (14:42-27:47) My boyfriend isn't gentle with me, and that bothers me. Is it a big problem? (27:52-43:46) What does 2 Thessalonians 1:11 mean "make you worthy of his calling"? (42:50-57:50) Closing Song: He Giveth More Grace (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

How do I balance being a good partner with making sure I'm doing self-care? (18:09-27:06) I feel like every time my life gets better, I mess it up. How does got want me to handle this? (27:11-38:08) What are Christians supposed to do about friends and family who believe in QAnon? (38:13-1:00:00) Closing Song: Four Good Reasons (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I love people I really, really disagree with? (17:52-32:17) How can you make or maintain friendships with people you don't see regularly? (32:22-46:10) The Bible says I am "free" from sin. But I am going to be always be a sinner. So what does that mean? (46:15-1:01:58) Closing Song: I Am Free (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I don't know how to feel about my parents. They were always there for me, but there was also a lot of violence and screaming. My friends tell me that is abuse, but my parents say it's just our culture. How do I know who to believe? (18:36-38:01) How do you make and maintain friendships when there is regular context (church, school, etc) to meet up? (38:19-53:11) I know someone who is going back and forth in life. I want to be there for them, but I also get mad at them. How does God want me to handle this? (53:16-1:07:21) Closing Song: Rooted (Kyle Sigmon) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I involve God in setting my goals? (13:40-29:54) I have tried to keep my politics and faith separate, but that seems to be getting harder. What interaction should politics and faith have? (30:02-51:11) Why does Jesus call the disciples "you of little faith"? (51:15-1:09:28) Closing Song: Before The Throne (Fire Down) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I am struggling with the physical aspect of my marriage. What do I do? (13:44-33:30) I have been learning about church history and how much conflict and division there has been. What does that mean for us today? (33:35-54:13) How do keep going when the abyss seems to be closing in? (54:19-1:12:47) Closing Song: Little Light (Deacons Division) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

What is "spiritual growth" and how do you measure it? (15:50-32:49) Why is that when you start doing well, some people start acting weird toward you? (32:53-48:05) I've never read the Old Testament for myself, where is a good place to start? (48:09-1:08:05) Closing Song: Greater Is He (Jed Brewer) *Note- this episode was recorded on Jan 3rd 2021, before the attempted coup at the US Capitol* Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)