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I feel like every guy or woman has this conversation with a friend or even family member in regards to someone they are crushing on…Do you think he likes me? So today I talk with Dallas to get the male's perspective. We talk about the texting stage, first date, dating and general signs. Join us in the fun and have a few laughs. Because dating shouldn't be taken too seriously...life is about having fun and enjoying the journey!

I believe some rules are meant to be broken as some rules in place by society or ourselves control and restrict us from being our authentic self. Rules that keep us in an emotional fear space I believe we should question...obviously there are many rules we do need in society, and I am not talking about these ones. I'm talking about holding yourself back because of fear of judgment. 

It feels like we can often attach to the phrase "I love you" from a partner...it can mean so much or it can affect your relationship if it isn't said enough, at the right time etc. This is why I think we often attach to it. When we attached to "I love you" this means we have expectations and this is where the danger can lie.  Today I talk with Cheryne Blom about attachment to this phrase, the different types of love as well as different love strategies. Love strategies mean the way you show your partner that you love them.   Check out - www.cheryneblom.com - for her new e-book called “Think yourself happy. 101 Positive affirmations to empower your day.” You just need to click on the read now button. 

I believe the magic happens outside of your comfort zone and today I want to share my personal experience of this and how you can get out of a routine and use fear to motivate you instead of paralyzing you. 

Themes for today’s episode and some quotes I’d like to share with you all: “Love when you’re ready and not when you’re alone” ~ UNKNOWN. “The wrong relationships teach you how to recognize the right one when it arrives”~ Mandy Hale. And finally: “you can’t make someone be ready for what you’re ready for. And you’re not obligated to wait around for them to make up their mind”~ UNKNOWN. Today we are going to talk about: Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other? I’ve invited to the show Antia & Brody Boyd to discuss this and share their thoughts and advice for anyone wants to know if a love interest is emotionally ready or possibly discover you aren't as ready as you personally thought yourself. Antia & Brody are dating coaches and have been helping thousands of successful single men & women all over the world for over two decades combined. They help people to attract the ideal partner of their dreams quickly without the feelings of loneliness, frustration or like you’re w

“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, not by heaven or hell” said the Buddha. To expand on this further, I wonder if feeling complete self-love is how we experience heaven on earth? So today we are discussing the concept of creating Heaven on Earth for yourself. I’ve invited back to the show, Brandon Bozarth, to explain to us his concept of creating Heaven on Earth. We talk about detachment, self-love, being excited to die, how to see something previously perceived as negative as a blessing and why self-love is important for our relationships...in particular when dating or in a romantic relationship. Brandon helps visionaries, entrepreneurs and thought leaders mater their life’s work by integrating their fear so they can experience true freedom. He has a coaching business, holds retreats, workshops, and seminars in the U.S. and abroad and is available for coaching here in Los Angeles and of cour

Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with…   Today I’ve invited Gene Stark to share his perspective. Over the years we’ve had many conversations about relationships and dating, so I thought it was time to bring him on the show.

Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with…   For the female’s perspective, I’ve invited a friend, Jenny and we have a lot of fun. We also talk about ghosting and even have a live Tinder swiping session!

“Men are at war – within themselves. That is what is fueling the division of our families, communities and the world.” This is a quote from the man I’ve invited to the show today, JuVan Langford…an inspirational thought-leader whose mission is to help empower men. Today we talk about The War Within: Men Are Suffering In Silence.  In light of Father’s Day in the states last week, this episode has a very powerful message for fathers and men. Listen up. This one is dedicated to all the men in my life. Starting with my family – my incredible father who has taught me much and to my strong and loving brothers. Also, to all the men that I call a friend or colleague, thank you, this is also dedicated to you.  The MENtour™, established May 2012 in Los Angeles, by founder, JuVan Langford, is an educational non-profit committed to delivering social-emotional and character development skills to middle and high school-aged boys. During the most impressionable period of their lives, The MENtour offers a safe space wher

Compromising in a relationship -- we've all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the male's perspective, Josh, shares his personal experiences of over-compromising and how it affected his life. After many years married he decided to end his marriage and start over again. This includes recently leaving a longstanding career and leaping into the unknown. 

Compromising in a relationship -- we've all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise? For the female's perspective, Liliane Grace, shares her personal experiences. She is an author and in an interesting twist of events, the book she was writing, Wanted: Greener Grass, unexpectedly started imitating life. This is an interesting conversation about choosing someone consciously and what this means. We also discuss why we hold ourself back, over-compromise and choose to stay small.  To find out more about Liliane -  https://lilianegrace.com

Recently I watched a very inspirational video called “It’s Time To Wake Up”. Every moment in life we have a choice to live by design or default. We can create our own reality as life is about choices. Every single day. So today we are discussing why it is time to play big and share your gifts with the world and how you do this. I’ve invited the man behind the video, Brandon Bozarth. We discuss discovering your purpose, personal superpowers, why people keep themselves small and how to shift out of this into greatness. Brandon helps visionaries, entrepreneurs and thought leaders master their life’s work by integrating their fear so they can experience true freedom. Brandon has a coaching business, holds retreats, workshops, and seminars in the U.S. and abroad.     Watched the inspiration video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hycq4GPHwn4   Connect with Brandon: https://www.brandonbozarth.com  

I have a very real and raw conversation with a friend about dating in your 20's compared to your 30's. We offer some advice for people in their 20's...having lived it and now being in our 30's. Plus we talk about what it is like dating in your 30's...if you're newly single...it is not as scary as you think!

I have a very real and raw conversation with a friend about dating in your 20's compared to your 30's. We offer some advice for people in their 20's...having lived it and now being in our 30's. Plus we talk about what it is like dating in your 30's...if you're newly single...it is not as scary as you think!

People are craving connection...especially whilst dating, yet most are not experiencing genuine interactions on the dating scene. I’ve often wondered why humans as a whole generally really want to be in a relationship. Today we discuss this with my coach, Cheryne Blom.  In relationships, we can feel connected or we can feel attached to another, we discuss what is the difference between connection and attachment? To me, it feels like people want to be treated with respect…naturally, yet they don’t treat others like this when dating. It’s double standards. I talk to Cheryne about why so many people do this? Expect a behavior that they are not doing themselves… We also talk about: how to experience genuine connections when dating, why it is important to connect with yourself and how you do this and much more. Cheryne has her own podcast which has incredible meditations and you should subscribe for guided meditations, it’s called Peace In My Pocket.

The more time I spend in the United States, the more I am realizing Americans don’t fully understand the concept of Friends With Benefits when it comes to dating...Aussie style! Therefore it appears that Aussies can teach Americans and possibly other cultures a thing or two when it comes to dating as Friends With Benefits is a huge part of our culture when it comes to dating. Therefore in today’s episode, we will be discussing the Aussie way of dating and the difference between Booty Calls vs Friends With Benefits. There is a huge difference! And of course I couldn’t do this without a fellow Aussie, so I’ve invited my mate, Chris Mclean. Chris has produced for many years the multiple Emmy Award-winning show, Undercover Boss. And currently, he is focusing on his own projects and company, Road Dog Films.

I’ve invited my very good friend A.J Mayers to gives us an insight into gay relationships and share his wisdom, as I believe straight couples can learn a thing or two from gay couples. AJ is the author of Final Boarding as well as other books. He also works in film marketing at Lionsgate. We discuss defining and setting boundaries, the different dynamics of relationships, and gender roles.

I talk about this A LOT in LIFE and I know it is considered taboo to include sexual compatibility as a serious item on the checklist when dating. Today we discuss sexual compatibility and whether it should be considered an important item on the checklist when dating. Barrett Perlman joins me today to share the female perspective. She is a TV and documentary director & producer and is very candid...an episode I'm sure you'll enjoy.  I often hear this comment “Sex gets better over time”? So today we discuss this as well as infidelities, having a list of sexual things you'd like to experience and much more. This episode is dedicated to everyone and may we all have GREAT sex!  

I talk about this A LOT in LIFE and I know it is considered taboo to include sexual compatibility as a serious item on the checklist when dating. Today we discuss sexual compatibility and whether it should be considered an important item on the checklist when dating.  I often hear this comment “Sex gets better over time”? So today we discuss this as well as infidelities, having a list of sexual things you'd like to experience and much more. This episode is dedicated to everyone and may we all have GREAT sex!

Addiction comes in many forms and LOVE is one of those forms. Today we talk to my coach, Cheryne Blom, about Love Addiction.  We discuss: what is love addiction, why do people get addicted to love, what are the signs, how to cut ties from toxic relationships and enlightened relationships and how you experience them.  To connect with Cheryne - http://www.beyoubetrue.com.au